Why I Think Connection Over Perfection Is the Best Approach to Wedding Photography
Putting Connection First
Your wedding day is about you and your partner—not about getting the perfect shot. Over the years, I’ve seen couples stress about poses and look stiff in photos. The best images happen when you forget the camera is there.
I focus on connection first, photography second. When couples feel relaxed and comfortable, real moments happen—moments you’ll treasure for decades. You don’t need to perform; you just need to be yourselves.
What “Connection Over Perfection” Means
Connection-first wedding photography is about noticing the moments others might miss. A glance during the vows, a quiet tear, or a laugh shared between friends—these are the moments that tell your story.
I guide gently when needed, but never force poses. Natural interactions create authentic, timeless images that capture your day as it truly happens.
How I Work With Couples
Building trust starts long before your wedding day. Limiting my schedule to 20 weddings a year allows me to spend quality time with each couple. Phone calls, coffee meetings, and sometimes a pre-wedding shoot help me understand your personalities.
By the wedding day, I feel like a friend with a camera. You’re relaxed, and that ease shows in your photos.
Why This Style Makes a Difference
Connection-first photography captures stories, not just moments. From first looks to family interactions, your album tells the full story of your day. Years later, these photos bring back feelings—not just memories.
Debunking the “Perfect Shot” Myth
Technically perfect photos can feel cold and posed. I prioritise emotion over perfection. A slightly imperfect, candid laugh is worth far more than a stiff, flawless pose. Of course, I still pay attention to light and composition—but never at the expense of genuine emotion.
Tips for Couples to Get the Most Out of Connection-First Photography
Before the wedding:
Do a pre-wedding shoot to get comfortable. Share worries or camera shyness—communication helps. Highlight special moments or traditions that matter.
On the day:
Focus on each other, not the camera. Enjoy small interactions—they often make the best photos. Trust your photographer to capture the day authentically.
Why This Approach Resonates
Your wedding photos should tell your story honestly. Connection-first photography captures genuine smiles, real emotions, and family interactions. These images become family history, not just pretty pictures.
If you value feeling comfortable and enjoying your day over chasing perfection, you can learn more about me or read stories from couples on my Stories page. If you’d like to chat about your wedding, get in touch. I’d love to hear about your plans.